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Mystical Messages~ October 17, 2016

Spider~

I was just about to go out to pick some tomatoes a few days ago and I almost walked into this beautiful web. I respect spiders and think they are very interesting. I did not break her web, but today I did re-route it and ask her to forgive me, and told her she could rebuild close by. I thanked her for her blessings.~
*Spider tells us we are part of the huge web of life and we are all connected. We must respect one another and remember we are all creators. Spider may be reminding us to go within and take note of the life we are weaving. The lesson of spider is to maintain balance between our past and future, spiritual and physical. She teaches that everything you do and experience now, how we react and choose, is part of weaving our future.*

~Written by Fran Mystiblu Hafey~

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Challenges of our Mind, Body and Spirit

By Fran Mysti Hafey

Sometimes we choose our challenges. Other times they come at us from lots of directions. Some are easier than others to handle while others are seemingly out of our control. We may feel we have to “play the game” to get things done even when we’re biting our tongue and our knuckles are white!

I had a major surgery in December 2015. I didn’t exactly choose it, but because of degree of physical pain I was in, I almost welcomed it, even though I knew it would be one of the hardest things I have ever done. The surgery was a Total Knee Replacement or TKR. My left knee was in bad shape and had been for a long time. I dealt with pain and I was losing the ability to walk. The surgery went well and I came home with tons of drugs to help me get through it. To those who know me, they know I don’t care for taking pills or medicine and I tend to do without as much as I can opting for “just getting through it” or with alternative natural herbs, essential oils, supplements, ointments and rest.

My life revolved around the surgery for quite a while. It has now been ten months and I am doing pretty well, even though I still limp, use a cane and take something for pain now and then. My knee is very stiff and still swollen and my other knee acts up too. I also have other health issues so the knee wasn’t a fix all, cure all. My life has completely changed! Let me tell you a bit about my life post knee surgery…

I remember going to the hospital to prepare for the surgery. As I mentioned above, I have other health issues. The other health issues are why some doctors did not want to do the surgery in the first place because blood clotting issues, blood pressure, apnea (shallow breathing when asleep) and being over- weight were a few of them. They knew what to watch for and I was grateful for the angels who took care of me and watched over me at the hospital. Not just my angels and spirit guides and helpers , but the doctors, nurses and staff. They made me feel at ease and like I was the only patient there.

I had a difficult time after surgery because my blood pressure dropped very low, so they kept me in recovery several hours longer than most patients. Because of my sensitivities, (to everything) they were unable to get the pain medicine type and dosage just right. I remember very little about being in the hospital, not even knowing when my family was there. When I got home I stopped taking one of the pain medicines that made me feel trippy and concentrated on getting in and out of bed, healing and just being able to get to the bathroom without bending my leg or falling! Physical therapy still makes me cringe! Oh, I do not want to scare anyone from any of this, but it is very hard work and it is not for the faint of heart! After showing up every time with a smile on my face I finally had to take matters into my own hands and go with what my higher self was saying and stop them from some of the “exercises” they wanted me to do!  I did what felt right for me! Everyone there at physical therapy were wonderful, helpful and did a great job pushing me to keep going to heal!

While healing, I had time to think. Being an Aquarian and the personality type that tends to think a lot anyway, I went deeper in myself, took notes and did my best to deal with the daily roller coaster. For me, it was not easy allowing someone to take care of me, cook for me, bring me food, help me to the bathroom, help me with bathing, dressing and other daily activities. I had to learn a HUGE lesson in really letting go of housework and doing normal everyday things most take for granted.  I was still on some heavy pain killers, but not as heavy as what they were giving me in the hospital. I know my thinking and sleeping patterns had changed because of the “trauma” my body had gone through and now what my body, brain and energy were dealing with. Everything is different than it was before and I wondered how life was going to be from now on.

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I am going to stop there for now because I will be writing and sharing more here soon. I have a lot to share with you about my journey, the journey of my mind, body and spirit as it changes and as I learn so many wonderful, valuable lessons about life and death.

Thank you for being here.

Blessings,

Fran~Mysti

Great quote from Martin Luther King Jr. It makes me cry and smile when I read it!!

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Hello dear ones. I can hardly believe it has been almost a year, in just a couple of weeks, since I posted here! Life hasn’t just been busy, it has been changing like the waves of the ocean, going up and down, fast and slow, swirling me around in many directions. Sometimes we have to take time to figure out our priorities and do what is best for us. For me, traveling and dealing with doctors takes a lot of time and energy. I am not one to take what doctors say as the only way or option, and I have to remind them I have a brain and I know my body more than anyone. Yes, yes, of course doctors know a lot and I admire them, but when they have me going in circles trying to convince me of something I know is not so, then I have to stand up for myself and tell them the way I feel. There is a way to handle ordeals like this and while doing so, I have to keep up my strength and keep moving foward.

With this being said, I will get right to it. I cannot promise my blog will be filled to the brim every month, because I do have other things on my plate, but I have words to write, stories to share and lessons to convey and teach. My mind is not controlled so much now by pain medications or overfilled with appointments these days, even though my body is still healing and still needs more TLC, I have to write. I have to get all of “this” out of my head and heart and share it!

Thank you for being here and I pray you will share my blog and new pages, links and information with others if you feel led to share.

I think the picture I shared today is appropriate. It reminds me of healing and me. *smile*

Blessings and light, Fran~Mysti

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